Welcome to In The Box

When You Join With A PAID Membership Today

When you join In The Box as a paying member today, you’ll get immediate access to our:

• Weekly Zoom Check-ins:  You can talk or just listen.  You can turn your camera on or stay off screen.  But show up so you can get the support you need to see you through one of the hardest times of your life.  
• Discussion Space: Share your day, your victories, and your challenges in this supportive discussion space.  Ask questions another dad might have a possible answer for.  Express yourself openly and also encourage others when you can.  Form supportive friendships, make meaningful connections, and stop carrying the weight of your grief on your own.
• Daily Questions, Polls, and Posts:  The daily posts are intended to spark reflection, introspection, connection, and discussion.  This space is not only a chance to learn, reflect, be introspective, and connect but also a way to remind yourself that you are not alone in this journey.  Navigating the loss of a parenting partnership can be nearly impossible alone, but in community some of the weight gets lifted from all of our shoulders. 
• Guest Speakers:  Hear from and engage in Q&As with folks who work with parents going through separation and divorce in a multitude of ways: parenting, co-parenting, self-care, legal, financial, therapeutic, and more.

When You Join With A FREE Membership Today

When you join In The Box with our FREE membership today, you’ll get immediate access to our:

• Discussion Space: Share your day, your victories, and your challenges in this supportive discussion space.  Ask questions another dad might have a possible answer for.  Express yourself openly and also encourage others when you can.  Form supportive friendships, make meaningful connections, and stop carrying the weight of your grief on your own.
• Daily Questions, Polls, and Posts:  The daily posts are intended to spark reflection, introspection, connection, and discussion.  This space is not only a chance to learn, reflect, be introspective, and connect but also a way to remind yourself that you are not alone in this journey.  Navigating the loss of a parenting partnership can be nearly impossible alone, but in community some of the weight gets lifted from all of our shoulders. 

Members With Free Memberships Can Upgrade Any Time To Gain Access To

• Weekly Zoom Check-ins:  You can talk or just listen.  You can turn your camera on or stay off screen.  But show up so you can get the support you need to see you through one of the hardest times of your life.  
• Guest Speakers:  Hear from and engage in Q&As with folks who work with parents going through separation and divorce in a multitude of ways: parenting, co-parenting, self-care, legal, financial, therapeutic, and more.

"I reached out to Peter a couple of years ago during the darkest times of my divorce and my life. He was quick to respond and has been there ever since. Listening, advising, helping, and guiding. Peter, along with this community, has assisted me in my divorce, life, and self-discovery. He has been an inspiration to me, and this community has helped me get through my divorce and my difficult circumstances. In turn, it has helped me cope and bring out within myself a purpose to help others going through the most challenging and stressful phase of life which is divorce." 
- Jim from Illinois

Why In The Box?

You're a dad going through separation or divorce.  You don't have to do it alone.  We've got you.  Together unstoppable.

We bring together dads going through separation or divorce to foster a sense of community and camaraderie and share coping strategies and advice, so that we can rebuild our lives with hope and optimism for the future.  You don't have to have ever been married, you just need to be a dad who is going through a break-up from your kids' other parent.

If you are a dad going through a separation who is hurting, struggling, feeling untethered, and feeling alone and you want to feel good about yourself and your life again, join us.  Let's grow and heal in community with other dads going through one of the most challenging times of our lives.  Let's create new lives we love for our kids and ourselves.

"I found Peter as I was scrolling through TikTok. He was the only channel I found that seemed to actively care about men’s mental health. I was separated and having a rough time navigating the uncharted waters. He told me about his weekly support meetings and I decided to give it a try. I’m so very glad I did. I thought I’d be shy at first but I found the group very welcoming. By the end of it, I was fully communicating my personal situation completely free of judgement. I was so relieved to realize that I wasn’t alone. That was the heaviest weight I’d been carrying. Through the group I feel as though that weight has gotten lighter. I’m very grateful to have stumbled upon this great group of supportive individuals. I’ve been attending for about six months now and have no plans of stopping." 
-  Kevin from Virginia

The Results You'll Get

Our community is pretty special.  It's for dads going through separation or divorce from their kids' other parent who want to support and be supported by other dads going through the same excruciating experiences.  It's for dads who want to process their grief and loss in healthy ways and eventually build a life that's more joyful than ever for their kids and themselves.  We’re focused on the ways it will make a huge difference in your life.

Here are seven of the things you’ll be able to do as a member of In The Box:

• Gain emotional support and practical advice from other dads who understand your situation.  
• Form deep, meaningful connections with dads who share your experiences.
• Learn effective coping strategies to positively rebuild your life post-separation or post-divorce.

• Figure out how to be the best dad for your kids even when you are in agonizing pain, parenting from love and courage regardless of custody issues or your relationship with your kids' other parent. 

• Dig deep and become an even better man than you already are. 

• Become happier (and create the space for your kids to become happier, too) than before your break-up.

• Feel confident that if you ever choose to do so, you could have a healthy relationship in the future with a new partner.

"Peter and the whole In The Box community has been such a tool and revelation to my self-esteem. Peter makes the process feel like you are talking with a close friend of 10+ years and not just a coach. The guys in the community are tight-knit and unified through Peter and all of our similarities in our lives, marriages, and separations. This truly feels like a group of guys who look out for one another and give thoughtful criticism and kind words on various problems we as dads and single men face. Peter is really on to something and has never been biased to either side when talking about spouses and the problems that arise. If you are having a hard time or even in the middle of a divorce or separation, get in contact with Peter. The guy has been a saving grace to my sanity and a dear friend to me through this process.
- Shawn from Florida